| > | | | | of out talking or out thinking. |
| During the teenage relationships, both partners hardly | | | | 3. If there are many problems, both of you should |
| know each other. It is surprisingly that some | | | | handle one at a time. Handling all of them at a go |
| don’t even prolong their courtship so as to | | | | may be tedious and lead to improper solutions. |
| get to know each other better. There is a guideline | | | | 4. Both of you should be able to put in each |
| on how to solve problems that arises. Was your | | | | other’s feelings. This helps in having a deeper |
| teenage relationships ruined? What was the cause? | | | | understanding of the problem hence arriving at |
| You didn’t like your boyfriend or girlfriend | | | | suitable solution. |
| behavior? Your heart was broken? Did you learn any | | | | 5. There should be no blames when solving your |
| valuable lessons? Of course, you can’t fall in | | | | teenage relationships problem. Both of you are |
| love with people without learning anything after they | | | | affected thus the objective is to find a solution and |
| walk away breaking your heart. But what came | | | | not who caused the problem. |
| about after all the sweet words of love you used to | | | | 6. Don’t attack your partner but instead |
| say to each other? | | | | attack the problem. Attacking your partner instead of |
| Did not both of you say I love you forever and | | | | the problem may create more problems or even end |
| my love for you will not be shaken at all? | | | | up with no solution at all. |
| Don’t deny this! At least you said something | | | | 7. Did Jesus of Nazareth say that we forgive |
| related to this. Yes, you had agreed that your | | | | seventy times seven? Refer this by opening the |
| problems are hers and her problems are yours. But | | | | book of Matthew, chapter eighteen, verses fifteen |
| see how you kept your distance when she critically | | | | up to twenty two in the bible. In short, spiritual |
| needed you to be on her side. From that day, the | | | | engagement is another way of solving your teenage |
| curse of knowing each other lingers in her mind. | | | | relationships problem. |
| Teenage relationships may be stressful if especially | | | | 8. After arriving at a solution for your problems and |
| there are some bad habits practiced by any partner. | | | | fully agreed on them, then both of you should |
| For example; flirting, nagging, blaming, lying, jealousy | | | | forgive each other completely. Forgiving is when you |
| and lack of communication. | | | | accept your partner after doing something which is |
| Nine Tips of Solving Teenage Relationships Problems | | | | unacceptable. Don’t ever mention about the |
| 1. Start the problem reconciliation process without | | | | solved problem again as this refreshes the healed |
| waiting longer by hoping that the problem disappears | | | | wounds. |
| as time goes by. Let no partner say, We will talk | | | | 9. There should be no conditional forgiveness. In this |
| later. That is a sign of escapism. | | | | case, both of you need each other’s |
| 2. During the problem solving process, both partners | | | | forgiveness and not conditions. |
| are equal. No one should dominate the other by way | | | | |