Managing Overwhelm - How to Keep Life in Perspective and Be Powerful in Your Own Behalf

The world certainly has a way of throwing things atyour purpose, and have a plan for moving forward
us; hitting us right in the gut when we least expectno matter what life puts in front of you. Take a look
or can afford it, and it happens on top of everythingat why you are on the planet; what you're
we are already juggling and sometimes evencommitted to, and what you REALLY want. Then
dropping. It happens to all of us! So when troublingcreate a written plan that gets you there.
circumstance occur in our lives and businesses, howFifth, ask for help. When overwhelm has us in its grip,
do we keep from being overwhelmed by life? Howsometimes we retreat into our mental caves, and
can we keep "it" all together and manage the changethat withdraw has a tendency to shut us off from
in a positive way?those who want to help us the most. Instead of
When circumstances in your business or life leaverunning yourself ragged trying to do it all yourself,
you feeling overwhelmed, sad, or just plain without aask for help. Your family, your team, and your friends
clue as to what to do, you can start managingare waiting to help you, but they don't know what
overwhelm by asking yourself: 1) Who do I need toyou need unless you tell them what it is! So ask for
BE to not allow this situation to run my life? 2) Whothe help you need.
do I need to BE to not shut down and move mySixth and finally, when life has you down, remember
business and team forward no matter what? 3) Whothat you always have a choice. You can either,
do I need to BE in order to do my best and getcomplain about where you are, or you can stand-up,
done what needs to be done?ask for help, and create where you are going next. It
Standing there:is your choice!
First, recognize that the feeling of overwhelm is justLife is a journey. It isn't meant to be smooth sailing all
a feeling. Yes, the feelings are real. The grief youof the time. After all, the bumps in the road are what
may feel is real. The tired you feel is real. However,mold us into who we are. So take the good along
these feelings only have the power to stop you ifwith the bad. Find the gold in every road you find
YOU allow YOUR power to be stopped.yourself on -- yes, even the bumpy road we've all
Second, keep your circumstances in perspective. Nobeen traveling of late! Smile when you don't feel like
matter how difficult a circumstance becomes,smiling, and make a difference where a difference
remember to be thankful and appreciative of whatneeds to be made -- first in your life and then in the
you do have.lives of all others that you touch.
Third, instead of trying to control what cannot beWhen you take on life from this more positive
controlled (for example: tight credit markets) you'veperspective you'll find overwhelm that much easier to
got to recognize when you've done what you can doshake off; you'll see that your circumstances are
and then move on. You can't allow yourself to gettemporary; you'll recognize all that you have to be
used up by circumstances, especially ones that youthankful for, and that there is always light at the end
have no say in the resolve of!of the tunnel, if you will simply commit to being
Fourth, get in touch with your commitments andunstoppable no matter what!