Immigrant Women and Their Struggles

I was born in the United States and raised in Haiti. Iwith culture shock! I had to learn to live with
moved back to the United States at the age ofindividuals of different backgrounds and religious
eleven. Being a witness to the struggles faced by mybeliefs. I was impressed with the different student
mother, a single mother, made me more appreciativeorganizations to choose from. However, because I
of the education and the opportunities that I havewanted to feel like I belonged, I assisted in creating a
had as a Haitian-American woman. Having to learnHaitian-American organization so that I could meet
English as a second language and completing myother students of my own culture and who, I
Masters Degree in Social Work are my two greatestassumed, were faced with the same challenges as I
accomplishments.did. I soon began to realize that I was segregating
Growing up in the United States and having to adaptmyself from the many different cultures represented
to a new culture was a difficult and challengingby other students on Campus. I began to branch out
experience for me. However, my struggles wereand participate in different organizations so I could
minimal compared to those of my mother's. Shelearn more about different cultures. To my surprise, I
worked two jobs, at the time her English speakingfound students from a wide variety of cultures who
skills were minimal, and she supported four youngwere struggling as I was and their parents struggled
children. Additionally, even after we moved to theas my mother did.
United States, my mother believed that she had aMy first professional experience was as a Director of
responsibility to care for her siblings living in Haiti. As aa child abuse prevention program. Working with
result of this belief, she kept sending them money onparents was rewarding for me because I was able to
a regular basis.educate them about child rearing skills and help them
My mother always stressed the importance ofto learn stress reduction techniques. After
education. She did not want to see her childrenapproximately one year, I was accepted onto the
struggle as much as she did. With education in mind, Istaff of an organization that specializes on domestic
completed High School believing that getting a Highviolence. In my capacity as a Senior Social Worker, I
School diploma was all of the education I needed.encountered many minority women who were
Unfortunately, I had a guidance counselor who, rathervictims of violence in their primary relationships. I
than support the idea of my going to college,soon learned that it is often difficult for women to
reinforced my belief that High School was enoughbreak away from violent relationships. For the
education for me. Luckily, I met a professional andwomen I worked with, matters were complicated
successful Black woman who became my mentor.even further because many of them were
She taught me the importance of furthering myundocumented and, as a result, they were usually
education. She believed in me and she helped me tounwilling to ask for help from any authorities because
believe in myself. Although my mom had alsothey feared they would be deported. These women
stressed the importance of education, up to thisalso faced language barriers, difficulties getting
point, my experience was in seeing the women fromemployment, and the social isolation we often see
my culture who had immigrated to the United States,both with battered women and in new immigrants
obtain jobs as cleaning ladies and I considered themwho have not yet settled into American society. Of
to be successful. So, with a broader understanding ofthose who were able to leave the batterers, they
success, as well as some assistance from myoften found themselves unable to navigate the
mentor, I applied and was accepted to Syracusesystem and not able to support themselves financially
University where I majored in Social Work andwithout the help of public assistance. Of those who
ultimately obtained a Bachelor's Degree of Sciencedid receive public assistance, they often came to rely
and Social Work.on public assistance because their English speaking
I learned many valuable life lessons during myand writing skills were poor and or they were unable
undergraduate years. I lived in Harlem, NY; and as ato get training in a vocation that would allow them to
result, I was not exposed to many different cultures.support themselves and their children.
When I went to Syracuse University, I was faced