Alcohol - Mother's Little Helper

On April 30th ABC co-anchor Elizabeth Vargasalcohol into. There are a lot of women who think, 'My
interviewed four women struggling with alcohol in adrinking is just not that bad.' Feeling like every day is
one hour report "Mother's Little Helper".a nightmare that you have to trudge through is a
Remember the song "Mother's Little Helper" written inconsequence enough. You don't need a DWI, you
1966 by Mick Jagger and Keith Richard from thedon't need to go to jail, you don't need to loose your
Rolling Stones? The message is about drugs, and thekids. It's enough that the highlights of your day is
lyrics went like this: I hear every mother say, Mothersitting alone drinking."
needs something today to calm her down, She goesStephanie is a mother from California, a comedian
running for the shelter for her mother's little helper.who joked about drinking at play dates with children
And it helps her on her way to get her through herand other mothers. Even her husband was in denial of
busy day. You can tranquilise your mind. And to helpher drinking and stated she didn't fit the mold of
you through the night to minimize your plight.what he thought an alcoholic was. Stephanie lied to
The four women interviewed by Elizabeth Vargasherself for so long until one day she went on her
made statements similar to the lyrics of "Mother'scomputer and admitted to her fans she had a
Little Helper". The only difference is that the song isdrinking problem. She was so scared she would be
referring to drugs and not alcohol which each womenrejected by her fans, and the opposite happened
used to tranquilise their minds to minimize their plight.with letters of support and thanking her for her
The four women came from various parts of thehonesty.
United States; Stephanie a mother of three fromLynn is a fifty year old mother and wife with over
California, Mary who is celebrating 20 years of20 years of alcoholism. She lives in Mississippi with her
recovery, Tina a mother of two, and Lynn a fiftyadolescent children and husband. Her children have
year old mother from Mississippi. Each woman haspleaded with her to get some help and are at their
her story and disclosed her everyday rituals fromlast straw. Cameras followed Lynn into her first five
park social hours after school to drinking at 9:30 indays of detox and 30 days of alcohol rehabilitation.
the morning. They hid their bottles of alcohol, pouringThe cameras capture the intensity of Lynn's
it into coffee mugs while driving their children tointoxication before she is admitted to a Florida
school, play dates, parks, and other activities underprogram.
the influence of alcohol."Mother's Little Helper" interview reveals the women's
Tina is a mother of two children from Washington,shameful experiences with their alcohol episodes, daily
D.C. who transitioned from a political career to a stayrituals, and how they endangered their children's lives.
at home mom. She did not realize how muchOne woman states while driving the streets she
self-esteem and self-worth came from her job. Tinawould be dumping her empty bottles along the side
has difficulty in admitting she put her daughter inof the road. Another describes hiding bottles of
danger when she was under the influence of alcoholalcohol in closets, cupboards, shoes, and trash cans.
while driving. It was not until friends of TinaTheir ritual for buying the alcohol would be to make
addressed her alcholism that she received help.trips to various liquor stores so as not to be found
Tina's friends said it became apparent that Tinaout. They did not want others to know or see them
needed help. Tina would show up to functionsdrinking so they would drive around with the children
inebriated, and her behavior and mannerism changed.drinking alcohol in their coffee mugs.
Tina's friends organized an intervention telling her ofThe last lyric in the song "Mothers Little Helper" is -
their own experiences with Tina's alcoholNo more running for the shelter of a mother's little
consumption. At the end of intervention friends senthelper
her off, with her packed bags, to a detox andThey just helped you on your way through your
rehabilitation program in Florida.busy dying day
Mary who is celebrating her 20 years of sobriety andAs these four women struggled in their daily lifestyle
was a teacher at Harvard when her life spiraled intoof alcoholism they came to the decision to find their
alcoholism. She remembers one Christmas morningway to sobriety. They too were on their way
she was to bake pies with the family and she choosethrough their busy dying day. It was not until after 6
to take a drive and consume a six pack of beertries in recovery that Mary reached her twenty
alone. Mary wrote a book "Lit" describing her boutyears of sobriety. Tina went back to drinking after
with alcoholism and how she hid her alcoholism so wellcompleting the thirty day rehabilitation program and
for so long from her husband, family and friends.now looking for an outpatient program. Lynn is doing
Mary states to Elizabeth Vargas that, "I didn't lookwell and just received her four month chip of
like somebody sleeping under a bridge. But I had thissobriety. Stephanie is doing well in her recovery.
black hole in the center of me that I was pouring