Acceptance and Addiction Recovery

The anti-social nature of drug addiction results in aincarceration decreases, and criminal behavior
"Life-Style". The addict becomes out-of-synch withbecomes as strong and as much of a problem as
the social structure in which he must live. Addictsaddictive behavior. Combined, they are a very difficult
begin to associate only with other addicts or drugstate of being to change. Very few people, if any,
dealers and then transcend into the subculture ofhave the ability to make the needed changes on their
drug use. Paranoia triggered by many different things,own, if they are truly an addict.
and at many different levels, causes the addict toSome form of structured and rehabilitative "Help"
become less and less comfortable around anyonebecomes a necessity if the addict is ever to return
who is not doing the same as they are, partiallyto being able to function in society. Strict rules and
because they are becoming criminals as well asroutines are needed. Acceptance of the need for
addicts. Over a period of time, addiction requireshelp is important. It's important because the nature of
particular justification, and rationalization to live withaddiction is that it produces "denial" of the "problem".
the results that it is producing. Gradually, theseComing out from under the distorted thinking is
ego-defense mechanisms morph into an Anti Societynearly impossible because the "brain" is the most
philosophy created from "distorted thinking". As theseverely affected part of the person that has
addict becomes more dysfunctional they inevitably gobecome an "Addict"! 12-Step programs and a limited
so far outside of the laws of society that theynumber of Christian based programs are the only
assume a profile that is easily identifiable, and as asource of help that is not expensive beyond the
result they get arrested. Usually, the crime factorfinancial capability of most addicts and their families.
progresses as the addiction progresses and theAcceptance becomes the "key" factor for Recovery
distorted thinking progresses. A completely changedfrom this dread disease. Frequently multiple episodes
set of principles, morals and beliefs is adopted.of formal treatment are the only solution or answer.
Unfortunately, this is usually gradual to the point ofYes, multiple episodes, because "Relapse" into
becoming a long-term, overall behavioral change.addiction is usually inevitable as a result of how
The addiction progresses as the "Brain Chemistry"complicated this problem is. Physiology, psychology
changes. As the brain chemistry changes the behaviorand even pharmacology may all factor into treatment
changes. As the behavior changes the entireof this chronic, progressive, and fatal disease. The
personality changes. Much of the change in brain12-step program's fundamental requirement of
chemistry has far reaching effects that are not easily"Acceptance" has produced "Miracles", but should we
overcome or reversed. The chemistry changes are inrely on miracles to solve our country's greatest
"Neurotransmitters", which are at the heart of theproblem? Treatment in a controlled environment
relationship between the brain and the rest of theenables the addict to more easily discover and realize
"Central Nervous System". Specifically, loweredthe need to identify and "accept" that they need to
Dopamine levels are personality changers. Dopaminechange their primary way of thinking, and behavior. In
affects hunger, sleep, emotions and even the "bodytreatment, this reality is also reinforced by "peers"
clock". In their search for "Euphoria" craving for thewho share a common problem. This "acceptance"
drug-of-choice becomes incessant.must be complete and must be constantly reinforced
Sadly, this craving becomes less easily satisfied. Asover a long period of time. Its much easier to do
the brain changes, the drug is less capable ofwhen those around you have to do the same thing.
producing the same effects that it had on the brainYou don't become an addict overnight and you can't
before the changes. The addict literally has aRecover overnight. Before an addiction is properly
"different brain". The addict then is "chasing" theaddressed, it has usually developed over a period of
feeling that they originally derived from use of themany years, sometimes even decades. It is hard for
drug. The problem is that the drug can no longera human being to accept that a great portion of life
produce the feeling that the addicts' memory hashas been thrown away. Shame, guilt and fear that
branded. Eventually the addict loses the "high" and iscome with sobriety and the restoration of the
now just trying to get "well" or feel "normal". Withoutthinking process, are common complications for the
a specific level of the drug in their system, the addictaddict. These feelings are so difficult to deal with,
begins to feel generally "sick". Tolerance for the drugthat they are often regarded as the primary cause
increases incrementally with the length of the periodof relapse into using. Acceptance of defeat is also a
of time that the addict has been using. As timestumbling block, because no one likes losing. Thus it
progresses it takes more and more of the drug, thatbecomes crucial to move past the defeat and focus
can no longer satisfy, to fulfill the needs or desires ofon the accomplishment of becoming "Sober".
the user. As the addict becomes more dysfunctional"Sobriety" is a term commonly used in both AA and
and the amount of the drug needed increases, theNA in regard to abstention from both alcohol and
ability to obtain it becomes harder and requiresother drugs. Narcotics Anonymous declares regularly,
methods that are almost alway illegal. More seriousin their meetings, that "Alcohol is a drug, period". Most
criminal behavior is adopted to obtain the amount ofalcoholics of the older generation resent this claim.
money needed to get the increasingly greaterCurrent knowledge supports the NA declaration and
amount of the needed drug. The "Circle of Addiction"acknowledges that all are mood altering substances.
becomes "Life". Need for the drug is followed byAcceptance of this idea is crucial, because most "drug
obtaining the money for the drug. This in-turn, isaddicts" begin a relapse with the use of alcohol, often
followed by obtaining the drug, and using the drug.deceiving their selves into believing alcohol is not a
Satisfaction decreases and the need increases. Moredrug so they'll be able control us of it.
drugs inspire more crime, and more crime results inAcceptance, acceptance, acceptance, it just runs
more "time"... Life has become the drug-of-choice!through the philosophies of Recovery like a river.
Detoxification from the drug usually only happensBefore you can do this you have to accept that.
after being arrested for a crime and being forcefullyBefore you can do that you have to accept this.
removed from the environment where the drug isAccept it! Accept it! Accept that the Therapist or
accessible. Detoxification is most often the easy partCounselor knows what they're talking about. Accept
for an addict. The chemistry changes in the brain thatthe fact that you are sick. Accept that you have
have been paralleled by behavior and personalitybecome dysfunctional. Accept that things will only get
changes, are not easily reversible. The drug isbetter the longer you are clean and sober. Accept
removed from the scenario but the distorted thinkingthat this is wrong and that is right. Accept help!
has been "hardwired" into the addicts' brain in theAccept the belief that Alcoholics Anonymous and
form of an anti-social belief system. Incarceration onlyNarcotics Anonymous are and will always be an
adds to the dysfunction because jails and prisons alsointegral part of long-term maintenance of "Sobriety"!
have an anti-social belief system in place, of theirAn inescapable fact is accepting that not only your
own, developed by criminals of all kinds. This sickbody has to recover from using the drugs, but that
addict, whose ability to think is very poor, easilyyour mind will probably need even more time to
succumbs to the belief system in place wherever herecover from using them. Accept that people are not
is incarcerated, only too easily. As the length ofgoing to immediately accept your intention, ability or
terms of incarceration increases with the severity ofdesire to change.
crimes committed, the length of time outside of